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Self Talk - Saying and Doing are two different things?

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How is my self-talk influencing me today?

It has been fun recording myself and giving an additional dimension, a new voice to the inner monologue. A positive pep talk sets the tone of the day. I never realised the importance and influence self-talk can have on one’s mind. The thought which is driving my day is ‘Saying’ and ‘Doing’ are two different things. We friends have been saying for many occasions to meet up. It may be over 18 years we three friends have not met together. Given we are miles away, in different countries and raising young family, catching up did not take a priority. Some other aspect of life always seemed more important. But today, I was thinking, it may also be lack of initiation. One of us must extract that time and plan to make it happen. While the idea was presented and welcomed, I want to see how far we go this time? Will the plan materialise this time? It is a long while from today, but a plan is important to execute it.  I want to be the influencer who can make things happen!

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